Patience

Sometimes we meet someone and fall head over heals for them. Their smile is intoxicating. Their eyes sparkle in every glimmer of light. They have the personality to make anyone feel comfortable. You find yourself wanting to spend every minute of your free time with them. Wanting to be close to them if only to hold hands and watch TV or share a meal, a walk.

As you get to know that person, you understand they have problems and issues. I mean who doesn't. You assure that person that you are there for them and you want to be in their life. They are afraid, because they have been hurt. That is completely understandable. You try to comfort them and they push you away. Don't give up on them. You can't help how you feel.

Listen to them. If they tell you how they feel, take that into account and consideration. You can't force someone to love you. You can only be there for them and let them know that you care for them.

You may ask, "Well, how long should I wait?" Each situation is different. If you truly love the person, there isn't a limit on the amount of time you would wait. If you love them and looking for more, talk to that person. Tell them how you feel. Sometime its just that simple. If you feel you have given your all and nothing is changing, maybe it is time to move on. Sometimes people don't recognize what they have until it's gone.

Just remember, communication is the key. Let them know how you feel. If they are not where you are, you are going to have to make the decision to have patience or move on. The choice is yours.