The Grass Isn't Always Greener...

You ever hear the term, "The grass is greener on the other side"? Meaning, what's over there is better than what you have. Sometimes this is true, sometimes it isn't. Each situation is different. It could be related to a job, moving to the other side of town, it's even used in relationships.

Work - You have to carefully review your situation and circumstances before making a decision to do something different (or what you perceive as better). Make sure you are making the change for the right reasons and not just for "right now". Sometimes work gets complacent and you get the need to do more, to be more. In some cases, it's monetary reasons that inspire you to make a change. Evaluate all of your work conditions and options. Make the best decision that encompasses all you want to do and where you want to go. Have a plan and then execute that plan to get to where you want to be.

Moving - This (in my opinion) is the easiest decision to make. Perhaps you took a new job and received a promotion. The area you are looking to move to has better schools or more activities for the kids. It may even be closer to work. Again, weigh out the pros and cons. New neighbors, new friends for the kids. New commute to work, etc. Make sure it's the best for you (if you don't have a family) and make sure it's the best decision for your family.

Relationships - Oh boy...now here's a big one. There are so many reasons that you need to weigh out ALL of your options. First things first. Always work on your relationship. Talk it out. Share with each other your thoughts and feelings and try to come to a compromise. Don't sweat the little things and put 100% effort into everything you do ---- Now, if you have put all you can into the relationship and it's not working again, talk it out and decide to split ways on good terms. Don't go cheat or stay round and grow to resent each other. Be adults about the situation. Just make sure it's what you want and again...for the right reasons. As I said, "The grass isn't always greener on the other side".